At 88 years young, Mary came to live with us here at Hampton Care Home five months ago. Her vibrant personality and rich life experiences quickly made her a beloved member of the community.
Born in Athy, a picturesque town in Ireland’s County Kildare, Mary’s life has been shaped by her family, her faith and her determination to make the best of every situation.
She grew up in a devout Catholic family with four brothers and four sisters. Her siblings pursued remarkable paths: one brother became a priest and served in Africa, another joined the army, a third went to college and another worked for the Alvis Car Company. One of her sisters chose a life of service as a nun, a connection to faith that remains an important part of Mary’s life today.
Mary dreamed of going to university, but her father’s early death meant she had to step up to help support her family. She mastered shorthand and typing at secretarial college and began working, contributing her earnings to help the household.
She met future husband Ted, an English industrial chemist, at a dance while he was in the middle of his National Service. The couple later married and embarked on an incredible adventure when Ted’s work took them to Durban, South Africa, where they remained for five years. Mary and Ted enjoyed every minute of their stay in Durban, where they welcomed sons Stephen and Peter, as well as daughter Claire. Although Ted was later offered another role further inland, Mary decided it was time to return home.
The family settled in Formby, Merseyside, where Ted was working for Courtaulds, and daughter Jackie was born. Stephen became a consultant and now travels the world with his work, while Claire teaches in a school and Jackie trained as an accountant. Sadly, the family lost Peter at the young age of 33. Ted himself became unwell and eventually passed away, aged 64. Despite these losses, Mary reflects nostalgically on her life with Ted and the family they built.
Mary pursued her own career as a primary school teacher, a role she loved. Even now, she occasionally sees former pupils who remember her fondly. After retiring to care for Ted, she continued to keep herself busy with hobbies like knitting, sewing, gardening and playing bridge. She still enjoys making clothes and delights listening to a wide range of music, from Mozart to Abba! She also keeps her mind active with books and other pursuits.
Mary is very proud of her nine grandchildren and five great-grandchildren, especially little Rosa, 3, who regularly visits, bringing joy to Mary, fellow residents and staff.
When she arrived here at Hampton last autumn, Mary quickly embraced the activities and sense of community. She particularly enjoys seated exercises and games with balloons and balls, finding joy in staying active and engaged. Faith remains an integral part of Mary’s life, too. She attends church with relatives, or a nun visits the home to give her communion.
Her active mind and positive outlook are an inspiration to all who meet her. Reflecting on her journey so far, Mary says: “I’ve been lucky. My advice is to make the very best of the life you are leading!”
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